Sometimes sh*t happens, and there is nothing you can do about it. However, a person can do some things to make sure it doesn't affect you in the long run. I, on the other hand, made a mistake. Can I take it back? No. Can I control how I feel about the situation? Yes.
What I did will not be discussed, but know that I have the situation under control. I just have to pretend as if it never happened.
I would like to tell someone, but this is a time where the only person who can help me is me.
What is my point?
Sometimes it's okay to keep secrets. Not everyone needs to know your business, and you won't have to worry about someone getting hurt.